"You should have pulled a T-1000 and ran down the street after her.....then you could have formed your arms into grips and latched onto her car....lol.

j/k :)

Well. i have kind of come to the conclusion that im just gonna have to "go for it"........walk up to a girl and ask her out, even if she slaps me, or her boyfriend kills me. At least I can go to my grave knowing i tried.

Maybe if she does have a boyfriend, he will at least put me out of my misery"

"tried to get msn messenger but it wouldn't let me sign up. i fill out the required fields and click "I accept" and it clears the page everytime. a vista thing??"

"LOL Good idea T-1976, but perhaps you should have put the word "Summer" in the title ;-)"

"yeah a catchy name for the thread welcome to "Club Summer´s lonely hearts""

"Sounds like a name for a strip club...

I guess I'm different from some of the guys here then. I've been married for thirteen years and have two daughters, aged six and three. Love em all to death, yet sometimes you need a distraction that's totally unrelated to family - or you go nuts.

Sometimes for me it is video games, or mechanical watches, or firearms. Right now, it's TSCC and this forum. Lately, I've been gravitating toward talking about Summer because she's such a lovely and interesting woman.

But this thread is welcome, in my book, simply because if people want to reach out for help and a non-judgmental eye to read, then I'm all for it. Shunning people because it isn't strictly TSCC-related seems a bit harsh IMO."

"i, personally, like the soft spoken, but confident guy. a guy who knows his positives, knows what he likes. the really "out there" guy will wear me out and i will get annoyed. i like some attention myself and can't stand a guy who is too much of a "look at me, look at me" guy himself. i want his atttention on me, selfishly. lol. the shy guy runs the risk of never getting noticed or at least easily overlooked. you have to make yourself known.

the "out there" guy will appear to get all the attention to the shy bystander (you) but know that it is often vapid and on the surface. their performance is strictly surface and he won't keep the girl when he has to "perform" behind closed doors with a smaller audience. (not mean to be completely taken sexually....um, just sort of)"

"How does one get "confident" ?

The only way i know is to be "aware".......standing up straight, knowing where im going, etc....."

"*nonprodigal finally sits after having stood at the door to welcome her friends*

i hope this bar plays terminator: the sarah connor chronicles on those tvs. there's an episode tonight and i CANNOT miss it. ;-P
glad you could make it veran, we're not shut down quite yet.
akuji, could you pass me my crown and sprite? i think you took my seat. no worries, just want the drink. thank you =-)"